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Why Is It So Hard to Forgive Ourselves or Others?
Forgiveness is often seen as a noble gesture, a sign of strength and compassion. Yet, when it comes to forgiving ourselves or others, we frequently find it to be one of the most challenging tasks. Why is forgiveness so hard, especially for those navigating the delicate path of recovery from substance use disorder? At Soberman's Estate, we encounter this question regularly, and we believe understanding the barriers to forgiveness is a crucial step toward healing.
While speaking with my wife via cellphone, I shared with her, “It’s the strangest thing—as I was speaking with you a moment ago, I was petting our horse, Sugar Pine, and he began stomping his front leg. I looked and Sugar had plenty of food and clean water. He looked healthy but continued to stomp his front left leg as if trying to tell me something. Now I’m petting our other horse, Charlie, and Charlie is also stomping his front left leg, even though he has plenty of food and water.”
Topics: Soberman's Estate, mindfulness, Equine Therapy
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Topics: Addiction, Substance Abuse, Soberman's Estate, Sobriety
In the pursuit of long-term recovery from Substance Use Disorder, living intentionally with mindfulness is a powerful tool. Mindfulness offers a pathway to stay present, grounded, and purposeful, allowing individuals to fully engage with their sobriety journey. This article explores the concept of mindfulness, its benefits for those in recovery, and practical ways to incorporate mindfulness into daily life.
Unveiling Strength: The Path to Sobriety at Soberman’s Estate
In the heart of a tranquil desert landscape lies a sanctuary where men gather strength, rediscover their purpose, and embark on a transformative journey towards sobriety. Soberman's Estate is more than a treatment center; it shines a light of hope for individuals seeking to overcome Substance Use Disorder and lead a fulfilling life.
Topics: Recovery, Substance Abuse, Soberman's Estate
Celebrating World Labyrinth Day at Soberman's Estate
As World Labyrinth Day approaches, all of us at Soberman's Estate are reminded of the powerful role our labyrinth plays in the journey of recovery. It’s a day that beckons us to reflect on the intricate paths, both literal and metaphorical, that shape our journeys. Created around an iconic Saguaro cactus within the serene grounds of our men's residential treatment center, the labyrinth is more than just a path; it's a tool for transformation and healing. The design of our labyrinth is inspirational and absolutely a stunning sight to see.
Topics: Recovery, Mental Health, mindfulness
Building Bridges in Healing: My Visit with Steve LeVeau of AZ Pinnacle Counseling
A few weeks ago, we held an incredible open house for our professional community. A day that was filled with learning about what makes Soberman’s Estate such an incredible place for professional men to heal. We were able to share our clinical and therapeutic expertise as well as our different holistic modalities with everyone who attended, and hand out some incredible prizes as well! I was honored once again, to meet with one of those professional individuals that attended, when he came to pick up the prize he had won.
Topics: Addiction, Professional, Soberman's Estate, Mental Health
Celebrating Five Years of Excellence at Soberman's Estate
Just a few weeks ago, we marked a significant milestone at Soberman’s Estate, our 5-year anniversary! This special day was not just a celebration of our history, but also a showcase of the comprehensive and unique modalities we offer. We opened our doors to many local professionals, giving them a firsthand experience of the tranquil and healing environment of the Estate.
Topics: Professional, Treatment, Soberman's Estate, Event
Understanding the Effect of Alcoholism on Sleep Patterns
Sleep is an essential part of human biology. It helps you revitalize your body and mind over several hours of inactivity. However, sleep issues can be prevalent in those who are recovering from alcohol addiction.
Alcohol’s Effect On An Alcoholic’s Sleep Patterns
Alcohol’s effect on sleep patterns are evident in those who are taking in large amounts of it. The disruptions in the brain’s ability to manage sleep can come from a number of sources. There are a number of reasons why an individual’s sleep quality is negatively affected. These disruptions last several months even after rehab and can be a cause for concern.
Circadian Rhythm Disruption
The circadian rhythm is the internal clock of an individual. It is what dictates when you sleep and how long you sleep for. The circadian rhythm is an essential part of making sure that you have a regular sleep schedule. However, alcohol and other substances disrupt the rhythm by forcing your body to produce chemicals that make you fall asleep quickly. However, these chemicals are shorter lived when compared to the natural release in a non-alcoholic.
REM Sleep Disruption
Another essential part of getting proper evening rest is Rapid Eye Movement or REM sleep for short. REM sleep is the period in sleep that your body gets the best rest. However, alcohol has been shown to consistently disrupt REM sleep and cause an individual to experience a delay in their ability to experience it.
Frequent Trips to The Toilet
Your body over time has grown accustomed to making sure that you don’t need to go to the bathroom during the evening. However, alcoholics will have difficulty managing their bladders under the influence. This is due to the fact that alcohol is a diuretic. Diuretics like alcohol dehydrate your body by forcing liquid out of your body through urine.
Breathing Disruptions and Sleep Apnea
Another cause for concern is that alcohol has an effect on a person’s breathing during sleep. This can cause excessive snoring and even sleep apnea. Sleep apnea is a potentially dangerous condition where an individual’s breathing is stopped and started during sleep. It can cause an individual to suddenly wake in the middle of the night due to the lack of oxygen. The worst case scenario is that sleep apnea can cause a life threatening heart attack or collapsed airway.
The Most Effective Solution To Insomnia Caused By Alcoholism
Alcoholism is a difficult condition to overcome especially because of how it impairs judgement and affects your sleep patterns. The first step to proper recovery is always going to be rehabilitation.
Soberman’s Estate has created the ideal combination of medical, clinical, and holistic modalities, including board certified psychiatrists, medical doctors, psychologists, counselors, on-site labyrinth walks, equine therapy, fitness training, yoga, acupuncture, nutrition counseling and Chef prepared meals. Treatment at Soberman’s Estate is discrete and private with 10 beds on 5 acres of pristine Sonoran desert where recovery is adjusted to the needs of the patient.
If you or someone you know is considering treatment for addiction, call us at 480-660-3474 for a professional consultation.
Topics: Addiction, Alcoholism